Let's talk money, mike and I use to fight about money all the time, it seemed like there was never a end to it. I'm guessing based on what I have read a lot of couples fight about money.
One thing is I have always worked so I have always contributed to the finances. We don't fight anymore, thank goodness , to old for that crap. We raised our kids that got everything the needed and wanted, really I mean their lives were good. Mike and I stayed home and took care of them we didn't go out we didn't drink, we just raised our kids. Oh life was not perfect we had some really crazy fights, a lot of yelling went on, I look back now and oh if I could back and change some things I would. Something I have learned in life is you move on, it is what it is. I wanted to be a perfect mother, I don't think I was, is there really such a thing? I live for my kids they are my life, I worry about them everyday, will they make the right decisions, will they ever know how
much I love them.
I think that is a question that every mom ask.
Let's talk Facebook, when I was growing up there was no such thing, I often wonder if my life would have been different if social media would have been around. I was very shy in school, I always felt like I just didn't belong anywhere, I had friends when I was in school there were groups you hung with. I was in the cowboy group, I laugh I don't know why. My friend at the time, my best friend was in 4H, FFA her family was farm people. I hated school, but make no mistake if I could go back into time and know what I know now, I would pay attention and learn. Now in my life as an adult I thrive and thirst for knowledge, I am excited to learn anything. I struggled in school, I never made good grades, I would cry at the dinner table trying to figure out how to do my homework, mainly math.
OMG is all I can say about math. I thought as a child I will never need math in my life, boy was I wrong when I started cooking, sewing and card making, who knew math involved every day life.
I had a low self esteem and was very self conscious in high school. I don't recall those being the kind of things you talked about to anyone. I was skinny I always felt like I looked okay, I had nice clothes,
I never felt like I was pretty, but I did feel like I looked okay. My best friend had blonde hair, and I did always feel like the boys liked blondes better. I never graduated my junior year got pregnant yeah I know, what can I say I was so stupid. All of my boys graduated, one proud mama here, they all did well in school, played sports had friends and were all nice looking boys. I was on the school board for 11 1/2 years so I was able to give 4 of my boys their diploma. As I got older my shyness dissipated now I feel like I could conquered the world with the right tools. Funny, life is. I find I like to teach my friend and I did card making classes in Arizona, which I really enjoyed doing.
I was a manager of a restaurant for 3 years and I did a great job, I knew I could do, I loved it.
It was hard work I busted my butt, put in many long hours. The school board was not a paying job, but I took great pride in what I did, felt like I made or at least tried to make a difference.
Life will threw you many curves, how you handled them will change your life forever.